Sorry for your loss, Your mom is not suffering anymore. I'm new here but if I can do something let me know. Rancho isnt very far from me in Fairfield.

 

I am terrible sorry for your loss, And i can truely relate... WE (my two brother and sister) are still trying to put the pieces back together....
My mother was diagnosed with lung, limph nods, and bone cancer in Feb. 23 2009
On June 11, 2010 -we took her to Duke Univ. for a second diagnoses,
June 21,1949 -we celebrated her 61st birthday.
On the 24th of June of 2010 i admitted her back into the hospital. On the following morning 25th. I sat next to the bed at 0524 am as she took her last breathes(5 per min.)
I have been to the desert to fight a war. Yet,lost this battle , my mother fought the good fight.
1yr and 4months. she fought the good fight.
You, and your family- Bro' are in our prayers.....

 

watching someone suffer knowing you can't do anything to help them is the most terrible feeling. I watched my dad die of prostate cancer that spread to his bones and brain at only 63 years old and hardly ever sick in his life. The pain was so intense that meds wouldn't work, so we were relieved when he succumbed.

I'm not religious, but the way i have coped with his passing was to take the things I loved about him and made them live within me. That was in 1983 and to this day he still inspires and lives in my thoughts and actions. Stay strong.

 

Your not alone with your pain... It gets easy, but not today... The loss is huge but don't let the pain over come the the facts... She would want you to remember her with good thoughts, not sadness... Talk to as many people that will listen and the greatest thing will happen, your will hear her with your heart and it will be as if she never left.

 

Condolences

 

My condolences to you and your family...

 

My cousin lost a daughter to it over the weekend as well, ending a 10 year battle. thoughts and prayers go out to you and yours.

 

Nothing any of us say will make it easier, but in time it will ease, you will remember the good times and she will make you smile again.

I lost my mother when I was in my twenties, for a year I could just break down for no good reason, anything mildly upsetting and I would cry like a baby.

Our thoughts are with you.

 

I am very sorry for your lost and my condolences to you and your family...Times like these reminds me of;

'that people might remembered what you did and say but they will never forget how you made them feel.'

and I am sure your mom whom gave all her life, have made many felt special.

 

Sorry to hear, but remember that our beloved really die only when we forget them.. so keep your mom in your heart, she will always be with you.