First, get yourself bottle of Jack Daniels and get falling down drunk, preferably with a friend or two you trust. Second, go out and get laid.

When I was 17 or 18 years old I read this scrawled in magic marker on a bathroom stall;

"get all the ***** you can while you're still young."

Made me laugh out loud, but it's advice I took to heart. Don't regret it one bit either.

Having sex with 3 or 4 good looking girls you barely know won't mend a broken heart, but will make it easier to handle. That's my personal experience anyhow.

 

Sounds like you care deeply for this girl no matter what her problems are. I don't think anyone can truly feel your pain but a lot of us can understand what you are going through.

I actually just went through the same **** not long ago. The fucked up things is that I never really wanted her in the first place but I went through the whole withdraw thing. It was so fucked up. It couldn't be rationalized.

Sometimes I think it is pride...I ended up reviewing **** over and over again all to the detriment of my own well being. It was out of control. I felt like **** at times and the weird part is that I had other girls on the side but it didn't seem to matter. There was even an incident when I just finished hooking up with a girl, went upstairs to wash up and on my way down texted her. I was losing control.

I decided to go to Vegas and 'cool off' but it made the whole situation worst. I began thinking about how it would have been nice if she was around with me, then I texted her. Now looking back it was so stupid. After ******* 6 months, I no longer feel like **** but still miss her. That is the reality. She wants to be friends but I am cutting her off although she is a great person.

I read the other day that people fall in love (not saying that you are nor was I) with a person when they are NOT around. The reason is that we think about them, put them in differing light, feel emotionally attached. This is the same reasoning why I think I felt miserable. I was thinking about her, hence my strong feelings, rather than seeing it for what it was.

Put all her **** in a pile and blow it up. The best thing is to remind yourself of all the shitty things she does that annoys you and say to yourself 'see?'. The truth of the matter is that no matter what you do for the foreseeable future, you will feel like ****. At least, that's my experience.

I wish you luck in going to Hawaii to get over her but I think the only solution is time. Have you seen Forgetting Sarah Marshall?

Good luck

 

I know it doesn't feel like it now, but even in this crappy moment, you must be able to appreciate that this is a serious BLESSING in disguise. there isn't a girl on earth who is hot enough to compensate for a raging meth habit. and it will turn anybody into a strung out twitchy, ugly, desperate, dishonest, waste of life. the best thing she could have done for you was leave. now the trick is gonna be keeping her away once she runs out of money. her new "friend" probably has plans for her to support them both one way or another. pimpin ain't easy. she saved you years of futile effort trying to clean her up. you can't clean up a meth head. once they're hooked, there's no going back, I don't care who you are. you might quit for a few years but if its there, they will do it. no matter who they have to lie to, cheat on, steal from, blackmail, or threaten in order to get it. you need to cut her off. permanent. if she calls don't answer. if she shows up, blow her off. do not help her. make her understand that even if she's lying ina ditch, in the snow with 2 broken legs, if she calls you, all she'll get is a swift "**** off". never let her think you might help her in any way. or you'll never be rid of her. think of her as a zombie that can talk. she'll look the part soon enough. forget she ever existed. and hopefully, with a little luck, she won't for much longer.