Question for the ladies (including the SO's of the guys)
01-17-2010, 05:14 PM
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Question for the ladies (including the SO's of the guys)
So, I met this girl that is pretty non typical. For our first date we went ice fishing. She enjoyed it and preferred it to dinner/movie option. She showed up in carharts. She rides an FZ6, hunts, fishes, and the such. I need a date idea for Friday, and I am trying to think of something that will be more along her ideal date. I am sure that we might just have some females on the forum or that we know that would easily have a great idea for a second date. HELP!
01-17-2010, 06:13 PM
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I was thinking about the snowshoeing, but I know she doesn't have 'shoes. The trails around here are not open, so snowmobiling is out. She already said that she would be up for ice fishing again, but I wanted to provide another option.
01-17-2010, 06:42 PM
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take her out for a game of hockey and work her over hard in the corner! 
get together in your, or her, garage for pizza and beer. if you're lucky you can go inside for desert!
my lady elbowed me for my first two suggestions but this one she thinks is good: atv ride? of course you and the atv will end up in the garage afterwards, and if the date went well you can go inside and clean each other up! ouch, i just got elbowed again. 
good luck!
get together in your, or her, garage for pizza and beer. if you're lucky you can go inside for desert!
my lady elbowed me for my first two suggestions but this one she thinks is good: atv ride? of course you and the atv will end up in the garage afterwards, and if the date went well you can go inside and clean each other up!
ouch, i just got elbowed again. good luck!
01-17-2010, 06:45 PM
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another idea. my lady just told me that one of her coworkers and her man went out in the woods and lit a fire and cooked over it. picnic i guess.
you could picnic and take an atv and of course end up in the garage again! ouch, i got punched this time
you could picnic and take an atv and of course end up in the garage again!
ouch, i got punched this time
01-17-2010, 06:45 PM
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Nice, Finepooch. The atv riding would have to wait, as it would require making a trip north for a few hours to get to trails. It is a good suggestion, but she also likes to ride as well. She probably wouldn't be terribly pumped to sit on the back. Think of it this way, she is the chick version of us.
01-17-2010, 06:55 PM
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oh, sorry, i'm not trying to tease you, and i should not make light of your question. i'm not a jerk but sound like it at the moment. sorry for that.
seriously: i like your question.
target shooting? go to a sporting event? go to a pub?
seriously: i like your question.
target shooting? go to a sporting event? go to a pub?
01-17-2010, 06:57 PM
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Write down 3 things that you want to do. Put those three things into 3 envelopes. When you see her. Ask her to pick one so that it will be decided. let her open it and do whatever it says in the envelope.....
This is one of the thing that I did (secret: they were all the same thing). Scavenger hunt of mischievous tasks to be completed in a bar.
This was mine:
1) Walk the entire length of the room with your
hands above your head.
2) Hold a short conversation speaking in a
foreign accent.
3) Insult someone.
4) Find out what the bartender ate for dinner.
5) Try on someone's hat.
6) Find someone who knows the capital of
Nebraska (it's Lincoln).
7) Retrieve a piece of toilet paper from the
bathroom and slip it into someone's purse.
This was hers:
1) Find out the bartender's name and hometown.
2) Get someone to tell you a knock-knock joke
3) Go to the center of the dance floor and
stand completely motionless for 60 seconds.
4) Give a hug to someone of the opposite sex.
5) Give a high five to three people in a row.
6) Participate in a chugging contest.
7) Kiss someone's tattoo.
It's fun and it will be memorable.
This is one of the thing that I did (secret: they were all the same thing). Scavenger hunt of mischievous tasks to be completed in a bar.
This was mine:
1) Walk the entire length of the room with your
hands above your head.
2) Hold a short conversation speaking in a
foreign accent.
3) Insult someone.
4) Find out what the bartender ate for dinner.
5) Try on someone's hat.
6) Find someone who knows the capital of
Nebraska (it's Lincoln).
7) Retrieve a piece of toilet paper from the
bathroom and slip it into someone's purse.
This was hers:
1) Find out the bartender's name and hometown.
2) Get someone to tell you a knock-knock joke
3) Go to the center of the dance floor and
stand completely motionless for 60 seconds.
4) Give a hug to someone of the opposite sex.
5) Give a high five to three people in a row.
6) Participate in a chugging contest.
7) Kiss someone's tattoo.
It's fun and it will be memorable.
01-17-2010, 07:09 PM
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take her out for a game of hockey and work her over hard in the corner!
get together in your, or her, garage for pizza and beer. if you're lucky you can go inside for desert!
my lady elbowed me for my first two suggestions but this one she thinks is good: atv ride? of course you and the atv will end up in the garage afterwards, and if the date went well you can go inside and clean each other up! ouch, i just got elbowed again.
good luck!
get together in your, or her, garage for pizza and beer. if you're lucky you can go inside for desert!
my lady elbowed me for my first two suggestions but this one she thinks is good: atv ride? of course you and the atv will end up in the garage afterwards, and if the date went well you can go inside and clean each other up!
ouch, i just got elbowed again. good luck!
01-18-2010, 01:11 PM
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if that's true, then she should already have thought of several indoor activities to keep you occupied for a few hours. I don't know how "like us" you mean. maybe its as easy as saying "hey why don't you come over and we'll eat some steak, and then fool around a little." lets be honest, we would ask that if we could. nobody here to elbow me. haha!
01-18-2010, 01:59 PM
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if that's true, then she should already have thought of several indoor activities to keep you occupied for a few hours. I don't know how "like us" you mean. maybe its as easy as saying "hey why don't you come over and we'll eat some steak, and then fool around a little." lets be honest, we would ask that if we could. nobody here to elbow me. haha!
we're a bit of a romantic group.
01-18-2010, 10:31 PM
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So, I asked her if she would tell anyone if she woke up completely naked, lying face down in the middle of a lake with a condom hanging out of her ***. She said no. I said we should go ice fishing.
I didnt really, but it is funny.
I didnt really, but it is funny.
01-19-2010, 03:08 AM
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Have you ever done any paint balling? I'm not your typical girl either. I had a guy take me on a date one time to a paint ball field and it was a blast!!!! I fell in love with the sport so much that I ended up buying stuff later and still do it. Didnt fall in love with him though 
Oh well better luck next time. Hope it works out for you though.
Oh well better luck next time. Hope it works out for you though.
01-19-2010, 07:18 AM
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While you were freezing your derrieres off while watching a little hole in the ice, she must have said something that would give you a hint about what she'd like to do on a date. Does she like music? Is there a band you'd both like to see?
Would she like to go skating, if you want to stay with the ice theme?
On the other hand, if she's thinking "I had a really good time with autoteach and I'd like to see him again?", is it really critical that you come up with something brilliant?
Would she like to go skating, if you want to stay with the ice theme?
On the other hand, if she's thinking "I had a really good time with autoteach and I'd like to see him again?", is it really critical that you come up with something brilliant?
01-19-2010, 08:13 AM
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I wouldnt say its critical, but he should definately put some effort into it to make at least the first few dates memorable.
My ideas:
Carriage ride
Live Music
Comedy show
If she likes wine, go grab several bottles and cheese and have a wine tasting
Ohhhh... if you do the wine & cheese thing, make it interesting and have one person wear a blindfold and try to guess a few different wines / cheeses.. THATS when you slip the roofie in her drink!
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My ideas:
Carriage ride
Live Music
Comedy show
If she likes wine, go grab several bottles and cheese and have a wine tasting
Ohhhh... if you do the wine & cheese thing, make it interesting and have one person wear a blindfold and try to guess a few different wines / cheeses.. THATS when you slip the roofie in her drink!
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01-19-2010, 01:29 PM
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invite her over for some intellectual stimulation. suggest a game of strip chess. it only works this time of year because in the warmer months people simply don't wear enough articles of clothing to play. gives "getting mated" a new meaning. or cook for her and while you are doing that, tell her to select a movie from a pre-established list of movies you have. girls love it when you cook for them. combine that with giving her the choice in what you watch, and she should be all yours.
01-19-2010, 04:30 PM
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I apologize for the 16hr work day induced off color joke. With that said, she said that she really likes ice fishing and wouldn't mind going again. So this is all becoming ammo for future dates past friday. I will keep you updated with what works and what doesn't. Roofies work, but they have side effects, like prison.
01-20-2010, 10:20 AM
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yea yea, keep up these "amazing" dates and in 6 months time you're gonna start hearing the "you used to do such amazing things for me....MEN CHANGE!!!"
dude, dont try too hard. Whenever i tried to make a date as memorable as possible it just blew up in my face. best dates are totally spontaneous.
dude, dont try too hard. Whenever i tried to make a date as memorable as possible it just blew up in my face. best dates are totally spontaneous.
01-20-2010, 10:46 AM
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I just hooked up with a wonderful woman a few weeks ago.
First date, shot some pool with her. She's in a league, and it was her idea. I did it with a pulled shoulder. Pain was worth it.
Second date was a movie at my place. just crashed on the couch. Must have made an impression.
Third date she cooked me dinner at her place, spent the rest of the night in front of the fire doing dirty things.
I've since cooked for her, shot more pool with a good shoulder, a few movies at home with microwave popcorn. If you have a good connection with her, she will eat up all the little romantic things. Keep an eye out and listen to her and watch for the signals.
AJ
First date, shot some pool with her. She's in a league, and it was her idea. I did it with a pulled shoulder. Pain was worth it.
Second date was a movie at my place. just crashed on the couch. Must have made an impression.
Third date she cooked me dinner at her place, spent the rest of the night in front of the fire doing dirty things.
I've since cooked for her, shot more pool with a good shoulder, a few movies at home with microwave popcorn. If you have a good connection with her, she will eat up all the little romantic things. Keep an eye out and listen to her and watch for the signals.
AJ
01-24-2010, 08:05 AM
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Well, we had a lot of excitement and fun. We caught some fish, we got the atv stuck twice in deep snow, and had a decent time. Now I am having trouble reading her. It is not because of my inability to read women, that is for sure. This one may end up being a friend, as far as I can tell right now. Thanks to all that gave advice, as I am sure that others will use it here. I will keep updating.
