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Nov 30, 2011 06:04 PM |
Forum Attention Whores
Attention whores could be anyone, from someone you can easily avoid, to an organized criminal, or even someone with a great deal of political power. Anyone, really. You may not be able to walk away and may be forced to engage the person. Always ask yourself if there is a way to outflank the whore; that is, without confronting them head-on, is there a way you can force them to back off by applying pressure elsewhere? Keep in mind possible adverse consequences down the road. For example, you may use alternative methods to get your adversary, to back off now, but the consequence is that you have now made a permanent enemy out of a simple attention whore, with the possibility that they will up the ante when it comes time to serve out a cold dish of revenge. When dealing with such a person, who has some power over you, caution is the key, and sometimes you may have no choice but to appear to go along with their demands now, as you build strength, connections, power, etc. in anticipation of being able to turn the tables on them.
I guess I'm with the "crotchety old men" around here. We don't take well to spammers and people who joined just to sell their crap. Maybe your poly cush drive really is great, but maybe you could also take some constructive criticism from folks who just may have more experience or insight than yourself. This forum really is whatever you make of it. If you read back on some of the "old timers" posts you'll see that they keep this place going, and are an amazing source of knowledge.
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